Self-worth, Continued...
The Ophanim: -
- "So when they do change, then they did this on their own, not by your help."
No one helps you to stand up, no one really can, because you always you do it on your own.
The best way support each other, is share knowledge on perspectives and solutions which might be the way for the others to learn “How find a way to stand up their own”.
Show people, “How they can find their own power”."
The Client:-
- "But there are situations where if feels good to help."
The Ophanim: -
- "Then do so, if your heart, your joy is in helping, then you’re following you’re path."
But, if you only help, because they demand it, and you have pending thoughts on other interests, and your heart is not in helping. They want money you can’t spare. They want your time, when you are busy. Then stand up for yourself, you only need to say “NO”.
This is more common in relationships where one partner demands help, eventually the partner with no self-worth, loses themselves in the more selfish partners drama’s. Therefore the partner with no self-worth are halting their own lessons, stopping their own soul development, and wasting their own incarnation. Also the other selfish partner’s soul development is slowed down, and in some cases also halted, because the other partner saves them all the time.
See your time, and effort are yours, are precious, you have your own lessons, your own issues to work through. Your own dreams, aspirations, and these others, demand that you put all that on hold. Who are they, to warrant that you, give up your true path? You must understand your own importance, and why you incarnated here. This is such a gift to come here, and you give that up, and allow another to jeopardise and waste your incarnation. See you came here to do important things, or to learn important things. Can you do not see your own importance, your own worth?
Maybe you work hard all week, and just need to relax on the week end. Maybe that time, is what you need to get though the next week.
And maybe you’re going to find really hard situations, where you see someone’s life near to collapse, and maybe they were trying to committing suicide. But you only need to do, what you can, what you feel is right for you to do. Maybe you call for an ambulance, and leave because you have to pick up kids from school.
Know that humans are stubborn, and don’t change easily, because they are tougher then they realise, and maybe they need to hit rock bottom in-order to find the will to change, maybe they survive, maybe they don’t. If they don’t survive they go on into the afterlife, and they are rehabilitated on the other side, and normally choose to this hard life again, but even harder next time. Why you say, because you’re a god on the other side, and you want to test yourself. Don’t you see, everywhere you look on earth people are having problems?"
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